Allow Me to Write Plainly



Slightly over a year ago from today, my husband and I ate at a birthday dinner with my in-laws. When asked about my job, I had the opportunity to describe my work on MaryLovestheUK.com, and the subjects I write about. For, I had then recently quit my position in retail due to needing to address my mental health.

The woman, who had a far more lucrative position in the Bay, proceeded to ask prying questions into my humble blog. Both my husband and I received the impression her curiosity stemmed more from mockery than genuine interest. For what kind of person does it take to respect simple, honest writing? Someone who loves God.



I, sadly enough, also struggle to respect lowly positions with low wages. Though I love God, my pride and my ego hated working at the retail position. As a result, given my mental condition, it had driven me completely over the edge. The voices had mocked me for years, and eventually the tears had begun streaming down my face uncontrollably.

And what did my employer have to say? She provided me with a warning and told me I was unprofessional. So, I quit. Plain and simple. I never wanted the job to begin with, so I wasn’t going to fight for a job I didn’t want. The choice had been easy.



Naturally, most people with my mental condition cannot afford to simply quit their jobs. God has blessed me with a family, both parents and a husband, who make just enough of an income where we can all get by. And I try to help with online money opportunities. But, in all reality, most people with schizophrenia never attain great job opportunities. And I’m no different.

So, if my reader has managed to make it this far, please understand that I write for the sake of writing. People may encourage me to write about my faith, or my interest in British fandom, but I write because I enjoy the process. And if a reader stumbles across my blog and finds an article of interest, awesome! But, I realize I shall never make a proper living as a blogger, and I will accidently (or intentionally, given my state of mind) insult and anger some people. But I write merely for writing’s sake.



Please accept my apologies for when I write in anger. I do sometimes stress over if I have written inappropriately. And when I think I have, I do apologize and hope to receive forgiveness. For I had to forgive the woman, because she didn’t know my situation or condition. And even if she had, God still expects His followers to forgive as we have been forgiven. So, I shall try, succeeding only with God’s help.

From this point forward, I will write on what currently interests me. This shall be a personal blog. For, though I long to write about the great complexities about my faith, the reality is that I have little desire to do much of anything these days, and my anxiety over my voices is large and cumbersome. Thank you for your patience and understanding.



#1 Money Tip – Give Generously



Zig Ziglar, an inspirational writer and speaker, strongly advocated the idea “Help others get what they want, and you get what you want” for many, many years. It’s often taken as the #1 Money Tip. In his book See You at the Top, he listed example after example of men and women who seemed to prove this theory. So why do Christians still refuse to sacrificially give portions of their incomes?

Why Should I Give to the Church?



As the title suggests, I advize giving financially to your local church body. Many, MANY people believe the Old Testament law of giving 10% of your income to be inapplicable to modern day Christians. I disagree. Why? The reason is simple:

If Jesus Christ’s coming to Earth and sacrificing himself on the cross satisfied every living, breathing Christian’s obligations to God, their fellow Christians, and mankind, then Christians would be free to act in whatever way they pleased. Cheating on exams and lying to our neighbors would be acceptable behavior.

But Christians who are honest with themselves know better. For Apostle Paul speaks about “Renewing our minds,” also known as our conscious recognizing our body’s sinful habits and choosing to change the body’s actions. Yes, Christ’s sacrifice fulfilled the law for people to enter Heaven. But we Christians still have the obligation to pursue righteousness, behaviorally, socially, and financially.

Applying Zig Ziglar’s Theory



Having first read Zig Ziglar’s success theory straight out of college, I was sceptical. As an undergraduate with no experience and no job, I was sceptical about how giving away my few, hard-earned dollars could benefit me. As you have probably realized, Zig Ziglar meant more than giving financially.

To give to others includes working hard at your job. If you increase the profit margin at your boss’s company, whether through saving money or generating more sales, then you are helping your boss and everyone who works for him. This would satisfy the #1 Money Tip. For, if this boss cares about his employees, even just a little bit, then you and your coworkers will get the holiday bonuses. You may even get a pay raise within a year or two, given the profit margin increase is high enough.

Another way to apply Zig Ziglar’s theory is to provide emotional support for your friends. If you help your friends in their time of need, then they will likely help you when you need them. **Warning** This becomes less and less true as generations come and go. I’ve found more support through my senior citizen friends, then my peers. A friend who is a peer is a rare commodity that is to be treasured….

Giving to God Financially



If giving other people our hard work will financially benefit us, then why do we give to God? There are two big reasons. One based on theory and superstition. The other based in hope from faith.

Think about God’s favored men written about in the Torah. The main five men, including Abraham and Isaac, were extremely wealthy men. Though I cannot be certain their wealth came in an easily liquefiable form, such as gold. I do know they had extraordinarily large herds of sheep and cattle. And that is worth millions even in today’s standards.

So when the Torah men gave 10% of their best crops and herds, it favored God immensely. I assume, in part, because doing so showed their pursuance in righteousness with God. And in order to have a relationship with the Savior, one must be righteous. God blessed these men in many ways, including financially, for their obedience.

For the Christians who disregard the Old Testament and its holiness, then consider this idea: God tells us to live and act for Him, so we may store treasures for ourselves in Heaven. Do I know what to do to gain these treasures? Maybe a little. And do I know what these treasures are? No. But it’s gotta be better than anything on this earth, so I’m going to try.

Conclusion on #1 Money Tip – Give Generously



So, if men in the Bible and people in modern day times have found themselves financially set when they offer their incomes to their local church bodies, then it may be a worthy thing to try. If anything, the church may save the extra funds and help struggling members if hard times come. May the Lord bless your church body with a great church bookkeeper, for such times will come.

I do believe that giving financially, and giving love to the lonely and destitute, will benefit everyone in the long run. Running with this theory may not make you rich, but it should provide you with everything you need. Is this all just Christian superstition? Maybe. But I think following old Christian laws is a safeguard in pursuing righteousness. And that is something every Christian needs to pursue for his and her own soul.



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